Is fetlife.com Safe?

It's one of the largest communities for Kinky people. You find real people, with real interests. Real events, real Kinky stuff! I never thought there could be such a well done community online for free with no surprises! The site is well done. The verification by phone is accurate. Uploading pictures and videos works like a charm!

A very adult dating website, and (even moreso than other dating sites) definitely not one to let your children see. Most features are free, including messaging other people, but some more advanced features including videos require a subscription of $5/month, or a one-off payment of $240 for life. But it does what it promises so I guess I can't complain. :)

I love this site!! Im addicted, if this is your cup of tea then let me tell you its alot better than collarme or mydungeonspace and hey you dont have to pay like alt or ***** its wonderful!! Its not perfect , please show me a site that is but its pretty darn close in my opinion. If your not into bdsm dont look at it you will be offended.

An adult site, a social network where adults who identify with the lifestyle within the D/s community, may be safe and freely communicate and express themselves! Excellently rendered with ads that are tastefully and obviously seperated, and beautiful design.

English: International BDSM community for adults. No pornsite. Various groups about fetishes. Some advanced services requier payment. German: Internationale BDSM Community für Erwachsene. Kein Pornoportal. Verschiedene Gruppen zu diversen Fetischen. Einige Dienste sind kostenpflichtig.

This site is a social network type of site for adults who are into kink, BDSM, D/s and M/s relationships and the like. It fills that role very well. It also has many, many groups that specialize in various areas of interest. These groups serve to connect people as well as to pass on information and education. If you are into these areas of interest and activity this is a good site to join. However, if these areas and frank discussion of sexuality offends you it would be best if you just pass it by.

People are stepping around the issue by describing this as an 'adult site'. It goes a bit further than that. The fetishes include eating feces, eating animal feces, being beaten while bound in a garbage bag, 'blood soaked blowjobs', 'grabbed by the hair to suck a horse cock' and so on. This site is an extreme example of potential wish fulfillment by a community with few fetters, and some of the 'fantasies' espoused are actually illegal (bestiality, actual real slavery, forcing people to eat feces). I'm not voting against it, and this comment is marked as 'Other', but I just wanted to leave this note here in case people thought this was a 'normal' adult site.

I think that says it all. I also think the folks running the site do as excellent a job as possible at making the site as child safety as they can in that it's restricted to adult users. And anyone allowing their children access to adult content that they find objectionable should be held responsible.

This is an excellent site. The people tend to be friendly and open-minded, and you can learn a lot from them. I've also made a couple of great real-life friends by interacting here. Now, a word on "child safety" and sites like these. Yes, children should not be browsing the internet all by themselves, but to say that a site like this is not safe for children simply because if its "adult content" is just plain ludicrous. Children are not born with intrinsic problems with sexuality. Many adults have those problems because we were steadily indoctrinated into impractical, mainstream ways of thought which create to repressive, unhealthy views of sex and the body. Children only emulate the behaviors of their parents, and they would not grow up to have such problems with concepts of human nature and personal preference if they were not raised that way. Honestly, people. There is a big difference between our various cultural neuroses and reality.

This is a question and answer, and online community site for people who have (or want to learn more about) non-mainstream sexual activities. It is NOT a pay-for-porn site at all. But there is certainly nudity and conversation about sexual topics, so this site is absolutely unsuitable for children. For adults who are interested, it is a well-organized, moderator run website. The privacy policy is interesting. It is a very good one, because it assure members that their information will not be disclosed (otherwise no one would ever join), and is very specific about exactly how member information is or is not used. Specifically: All passwords are stored encrypted, SSL connection and extensive measures, not specified, taken to avoid XSS incidents.