Ist nl.meetic.be sicher?

I registered on their website several months ago, as a free member, and later got some messages from some ladies and was obliged to upgrade membership to be able to see the messages, so here’s what i have experienced: 1- when i was upgrading the membership there was an offer, which actually was the reason why i upgraded, the offer was a 3 month membership for approximately 50 euro, i had some trips and later was not interested much in the site because once i upgraded, messages stopped being sent to me !!! So basically forgot the website entirely, but several months later, i see on my bank account 2 non authorized payment to meetic, so basically the 3 month offer was a scam and it was a 3 month recurring payment not 3 month offer! 2-The payment were specific automatic withdrawal procedure called “facture carte” this procedure does not allow you to block it or to stop it! Once it is done, the only way to undone it is through meetic itself! 3-Now, you need to go to the website to cancel the membership, you might think once you cancel then they will stop, well the cancelling process is not that easy! Once you cancel your membership, you have to fill a long questionnaire and as long as you have not completed it, your membership cancellation will not be taken in consideration! The funny part is that you will not even know that your cancellation did not go through till you see the unauthorized payments again! 4 – customer service non existent, they do not have a phone to call!!! And when i managed to find their phone, they said we do not refund! Even if i haven’t accessed the site in months!