Is catchhimandkeephim.com Safe?

I have been following Christian Carter for over twelve months now. I have subscribed to several of his programs and visit this website often. I have never once experienced any issues during or after visiting this page. Perhaps those who have given it a poor rating don't like the content? Not sure, but I have nothing but good things to say about this site. While I don't think children would be even remotely interested in the content of this website, I don't think it would be harmful if a child did come across it as the relationship information is presented in a manner that is not offensive.

I agree with all the positive comments. I don't understand why all the bad ratings. If I had children, would I "direct" them to this site? No, are you kidding me? There is NOTHING pornographic or offensive, it is just not age appropriate, until at least high school - or beyond (I'd have to think about this). But I'd just have appropriate child lock safeguards on my computer for anything not age appropriate, if I had kids of my own. Again, there is NO PORN HERE. But does a young child need to read this? NO, of course not - and they would NOT even be remotely interested! There are NO offensive photos that might initially attract them, as curious children might do - DOES NOT EXIST HERE. Also, another thing? Someone said this was a FAKE dating site - that is also just simply NOT TRUE! I have been getting their emails, their newsletters for months now - they NEVER advertise themselves as ANY KIND OF A DATING SITE! That person must be really, really DENSE. They are only talking about how to form LASTING, wholesome relationships, with MARRIAGE generally being the desired goal - LIFE LONG COMMITMENTS. NOWHERE is there anything remotely suggesting this is a dating site! And no porn. What IS the problem? Someone says spam, phishing, I have experienced NONE of that. Do they want to be paid for their products? OF COURSE THEY DO! They NEVER offer anything for FREE, except their FREE email newsletters - which, one you sign up, come regularly as promised. I don't usually rate these things BUT I will DEFINITELY SPEAK OUT when I see a business that seems to me, on all levels, to be legitimate, to be what it says it is etc, being maligned, having FALSE very bad & dangerous ratings assigned. This is simply UNTRUE & UNFAIR for this company. Leave them alone, take off the "in the basement" lowest ratings & change it according to me & all the other positive comments I see here. These people are not a problem. Personally, I believe many of these so-called "bad" ratings have been placed by Evangelical type folks, who troll the internet for anything that offends their moral code & then they proceed to TRASH these sites, just on the general principle that they, the Evangelical thinking folks, think such a site to be offensive. That is even MORE unfair, if possible - and intrusive, abusive & a complete overreach! Don't tell lies! Don't slap on false negative ratings that are not deserved! Have some kind of moral compass that is TRUE, OK?

I've been getting his newsletters for a while, and they are quite informative. Sometimes I think they are a bit of BS, but they have also been interesting and helpful. I have went to his site to look over information on purchasing and was not bombarded with tons of other spam or anything. I applied for his newsletter myself. I never saw any porn or anything dangerous to children anywhere in his newsletters or on his website. Keep your judgment for yourself whether his stuff is a scam, but I don't see how; it just seems extremely pricey.

This site is opt-in and clearly aimed at women in relationships. I'm bewildered by the comments regarding porn. To access the articles, which appear harmless, you have to pay. It's a commercial relationship advice site, and none of the pictures I could see are even remotely pornographic outside of the mind of a religious fundamentalist. Scam? I don't think this qualifies either. He's clearly stating he's not professionally qualified and that the advice has to be paid for. If people pay after such clear disclaimers, it's hardly a scam; even if one doesn't like or agree with the advice.

There is nothing I can find on this site that presents any child danger. To the contrary, if children grew up understanding some of the differences in men and women's thinking and emotional communication styles, they might understand what they have been observing every day of their lives that is seldom explained. The relationship failure rate might even decrease. It is obscene to suggest this material is pornographic.

The emails I have received and the info i found on the site have been very useful. Looks like the bad rating is just another case of sour grapes. Update: The more I read from this guy, the more impressed I am. Yes, some of the emails offer little info, mostly pitch. But some of them give really good tips. The links to the website generally also offer useful info, however some are just a pitch. Hey he is trying to make a living. You have to opt in to receive the newsletter. NO SPAM HERE just whiny, judgmental complainers making WOT unreliable sometimes...

This site is not malicious in any way that I know of. There is no content that would be unsuitable for children, and many of his free excerpts are actually kind of thoughtful. I have never purchased one of his products because I am not interested, so I cannot comment on trustworthiness with regards to that, but I'm sure it's reliable. There is always an option given to unsubscribe from the emails too. This site, as it is, is perfectly safe. Please reserve "poor" ratings for actually harmful sites.

I agree w/ @marytnurse: There is absolutely NOTHING WRONG with this website. I've ordered two of his advice materials & although they are a little long-winded, they've been very helpful in my relationship with my boyfriend. Opened my eyes about mistakes I've been making in the past. There is NOTHING PORNOGRAPHIC about it & this advice is strictly for women anyway!! Not children, not men, but WOMEN. No malware, no spyware....Get a grip on yourself.

You are all being too hard on him. Just because he wants to be paid for the knowledge he has doesn't mean he is a scam artist. I have received no more spam, no more malware (and I"m very cautious about this, working in IT), and no other bad things at all; and I DO have a great respect for the information he is imparting. And there is nothing adult content related about the site. Really. Not a bad site.