Is farmersonly.com Safe?

i stopped making payments when i realised that they are scamming by a man I met on the app, I have already made payments when I asked back my money he stopped responding so reached out for help by contacting Digassets . icu within three to four days I got my money

Found in the header of a spam message: a6.email.farmersonly.com ([166.78.70.6]. IP address is traced to Mailgun, Inc. ISP Rackspace. Never the less, someone from this domain is sending spam. More spam, same source. Message header: (b1.email.farmersonly.com [184.173.105.149]). Nice to know they have a ready supply of IP addresses. Seriously, sending this stuff to engineer professionals who live in urban environments is a waste of time. One more time "New! Top profiles selected just for cowboy9535191". Header: (b1.email.farmersonly.com [184.173.105.149]. Rules of thumb for most dating sites. Fake profiles. Most guys think they're chatting with a decent prospect. Turns out, it's a 'bot, or an employee at the site. Next, they entice you to sign up for free, then .. here come the charges to do anything. Once they have your payment method, you'll probably have to cancel it to get the charges to stop. Pathetic when you're just trying to find a mate. Going deep red, I've seen enough of this domain.

They use misleading advertising stating that it is "free." Hardly, when one can't send or receive a message for free. Too, the members presented are suspicious at times. Too, it appears that they actually read outgoing messages. Also, the customer service people are rude.

They have made some vast improvements from 2011. Including narrowing the search parameters AS YOU SEARCH. It also specifies in the EULA, that you can "flirt" generic messages without pay. If you want to send and read eMails, then you have to pay a minimal fee. With complete control over the renewal--if any. Not to mention, I found the "man of my dreams" on it.

Nothing is "free" except adding your own profile. You can not read nor send messages to others without paying. You will receive messages, but they appear to be bogus - none of the ones I received were even from my state, not to mention the 50 mile radius of my zip that I had specified. Of course, I couldn't actually read them.... Also the "search" function has no way to eliminate people you have no interest in, and can not be sorted by "newest," so it is essentially useless.