They make it so complicated to just start a conversation! Their matchmaking fails in implementation. If you want to just start talking to people whose profiles you like, use
things are easier and more understandable there, women are more responsive and easy-going, it doesn't take long to understand what kind of person you are chatting with and to see if have a certain chemistry. Answering whole bunch of stupid matchmaking questions on Eharmony leads to nothing - the matches they find for you are usually unavailable ( maybe they are total fakes, who knows) and their computer-made choices really seem illogical.