My mailbox is filled up with letters from very young girls from other countries, I wonder why? If I had wanted to date a foreigner, I would have used ***** because I know their profiles are thoroughly checked ( documents, photos, their single status and so on), so you can rarely come across a scammer there. But Firstdate is full of scammers, mainly from Africa, they just steal photos from social networks, it could be the men, pretending to be these beautiful ladies writing you and trying to scam you. The site is run poorly and they are absolutely ok with these scammers, because their profiles are used to engage you with the site and make you pay. If you decide to use this site, put your time and efforts in finding women who live close to you, and even if you succeed in this - still be very cautious, watch out for scammers and fakes!